Work: No false precision in choosing a career, using your best ability to make a difference, and advise that you consider jobs that drop in your lap. Usually, they don't drop there at random. Relationships: : Maintain high standards: Better solo than so-so. You can't expect to fix a person; tweaking is about it. I offer a Relationship Report Card to help you assess your relationship. Money: Status is the enemy of contentment. How to be smart in spending on housing, education, and cars. Consider investing in Vanguard. Regarding charity, think less about who has the greatest deficit but who is most likely to profit from your dollars and time. Health: Indeed, an ounce of prevention is usually worth five pounds of cure. Mental health: Stop revisiting--After just a bit of reflection, additional rumination is likely to make unchangeable past trauma top-of-mind. Take the next baby step forward. I drive that home by telling the story of my dad, a Holocaust survivor.